Male teacher gets dress-coded for wearing a t-shirt despite half the staff wearing t-shirts daily: 'Our school is near being an F school, half of our staff are not certified, but my shirt is the problem'

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    r/Teachers u/HomerTheBraves44 • 14h I was reprimanded for my attire today...
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    I'm a male teacher in North Carolina. Today I wore khaki pants, appropriate shoes, and a t-shirt that promoting mental health awareness. All of my polos are in the wash. I'm in the middle of class and my AP pulls me into the hallway to tell me i am out of dress code and do I have another shirt to change into because I'm not wearing a collared shirt. Keep in mind. Half of the staff wear t-shirts daily and I've never seen or heard of anyone being told not to until today.
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    I said... no? Do I need to go home? She said no but I'm no longer allowed to wear this shirt on days that aren't specifically dedicated to it. You want to know why good teachers leave the profession? I give you exhibit A.
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    Our school is near being a "F" school. We are title one. Half of our staff are not certified/lateral entry or are BTS who are trying to learn their craft. Every day we are given another impossible task to added to our workload. We now have to turn in lesson plans a week in advance because of our school's test scores and because we had teachers here last year who were drug dealers and didn't even belong in a school parking lot, much less a classroom. We are in the bottom percentage of teacher pay
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    But yeah. My mental health awareness shirt is the problem. I would have been ok with an email, text, or speaking to me during planning. But you pull me out of class with my kids for this...? I'm so sick of this
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    AuntBunnyfelldown • 14h Dude. I got sick Tuesday night and have been out for two days. People were already spreading rumors that I walked out because we're expecting someone to do that at any moment. Another teacher told one of my friends about it today and was skeptical when she told him I was just sick. At least we have collective bargaining in my state, but it's absolutely impossible to imagine that things could possibly be worse. Edited to add: three. Three weeks in advance, plus powerpoints
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    Educational_Row9370 • 12h I refuse to listen to teachers talk about other teachers or even students. I'm so sick of stuff being spread about other faculty and students. Like, I think y'all been around your teenagers for too long because you're starting to act like them
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    Sea_Row_6291 • 14h Sounds like someone told on you. Admin would have pointed it out when they saw you. Not track you down later in class. I work with petty teachers, so that would be my guess.
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    plplplplpl1098 . 14h THIS!!! Coworkers like this and admins who endorse them are one of the biggest contributors to people quitting!
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    HagridsSexyNippples • 10h My first day back to work after my mom died, someone wrote me up for dress code. Some people just have absolutely no lives.
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    Total_Nerve4437 • 12h A huge piece of the puzzle of my resignation. My coworkers sucked. Crabs in a bucket mentality.
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    plplplplpl1098 - 11h When I was student teaching I was studying under a woman whose coworkers bullied her relentlessly. In the classroom I wanted to be just like her but she expressed that they (one in particular) would always do stuff like this and due to rotating admin she couldn't take it anymore. It was debilitating to see someone I looked up to in that position. I didn't go back into the classroom for five years
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    DIGGYRULES • 13h I'm at a new school this year and it is mind boggling to see the petty, tattle telling and Karen- ish behavior. I am in my 19th year. I will not be tattled on. them. What will they do? Fire you for not wearing a collared shirt?
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    Prestigious-Bike-593 11h I was an elementary art teacher for 21 years, and my first principal told me it was OK to wear jeans every day as long as I wore a button-up shirt and looked neat. About TEN YEARS under a new principal, she calls me in and asks me why I wear jeans every day. I told her of my agreement with the prior principal, when she was the AP, that because of the nature of my gig, we agreed it was appropriate. I know another teacher complained. When I brought up all the teachers wear
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    FunClock8297 • 14h We have someone who looks at the cameras and watches what teachers are wearing so that they can go call them out. Someone accidentally wore a school spirit shirt on the wrong day and got reprimanded. We've got bigger fish to fry.
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    labtiger2 12h How do people have this much free time?
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    thecooliestone • 13h I worked at a school where the hall monitor was dealing to the kids. Pulling them out of class to take them to the front to break 20s, then to the bathroom where they stayed for 10 ish minutes, then came back to class clearly high. My friend was dress coded because she wore "men's" suits. Literally 3 piece suits. They said it was distracting because the kids (7th graders) couldn't tell if she was male or female. They all called her Ms. They all loved her. She had great score
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    FuzzyButterscotch810 14h I'm in an elementary school in NC. We can't wear "jeans" unless it's a "jeans day" but we can wear t- shirts everyday. My first couple of years I dressed up. more, but now that I'm older and most everyone else is wearing t-shirts, I wear them a lot too.
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    AGriffon 14h There was a science professor in my high school (92-96), a gentleman with an actual doctorate. In AIDS awareness day, he rolled into school wearing a t-shirt that read "F%* the ribbons, find a cure ". Well, given the profanity on the shirt, the principal directed him to change, which he refused. Then told him to turn it inside out. Also refuses. Their choices were to let him stay or send him home. He wasn't at all concerned with getting fired, as he had tenure. I really miss that nu
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    IDKHow2UseThisApp. 13h I'm also in NC, and my district is desperate for teachers. Yet we recently had a veteran teacher get reprimanded for exceeding their copy limit.
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    cole2157 14h • Maybe go to a different district? I am also in NC and the principal comes in with crocs and a hoodie.

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